[Not so] off-topic:
Please, keep in mind not everyone here is a native English spoken person. So, every time you see something “too harsh”, just think about if it’s possible to be due to a language barrier. As a community member, you should value the effort made by non English spoken members… unless you prefer to have posts in Spanish, Chinese, French, Hindi, Japanese, etc.
I love Oxygen and it’s community, but from time to time I see posts with people mocking somebody just for the way they write a post.